We are a HAPPY family!!!!

We are a HAPPY family!!!!

4.19.2008

My DAD!


I would like to give a tribute to my dad,

Kenneth Gene Shaffer. November 16, 1946 - April 17, 2008.


My Dad was the most amazing man I have ever met. He was the strongest, most hard-working, giving, honorable man. Not a day will go by that I won't think about or miss my dad. I would like to thank everyone who has been so loving and caring during this difficult time. Thank you to the Orchard Ward who loved him so much and for the love that is continuing to be shown at this time, especially for my mother. She is the strongest woman in the world. We greatly appreciate all the meals, cards, phone calls, and hugs. Funeral services will be held on Thursday, April 24th at the Curtis building next to Borah at 11:00. We invite all who would like to attend to come.


My dad will be missed by more than he knows and ever thought possible. Our lives will never be the same. I am happy with the knowledge to know that he is free of pain and is walking uprightly, the polio will no longer be a bother.


Dad, we love you, we miss you and we look forward to the day that we will be with you once more.

My dad loved his Prowler - April 2007
Mom & Dad - March 2005

Dad & Oscar - January 2008

Me & my dad May 2000

Me & my dad - I think I was about 10

My daddy walked me down the aisle when Ryan & I were married just barely one year ago.


See, I told you he loved it. - April 2007

Me & my dad when I was getting ready to leave for a dance - December 1999


My High School graduation - May 2000

The last picture that was ever taken of my wonderful dad was at Oscar's blessing just 5 days prior to his passing. I love the way Oscar is looking at him. This is the last time I ever saw or spoke to my father. It is a wonderful last memory of him.

I love you DAD!

Please visit Ryan's blog (my super nerd, Ryan, to the right) to view his feelings, it is written so perfectly.

14 comments:

casa chandler said...

You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. My dad said he was visiting him the day before his passing and that he was a great man. I didn't know him personally but I know for a fact he must have been great to have been the father of such great children.

The Stones said...

Tiffany, I am so so sorry for your loss. What a beautiful tribute. Thank you for sharing. We will keep you in our prayers. We love you.
The Stones

Beth said...

Our prayers are with you and your family. We will help in any way we can. What beautiful memories and pictures.
love, Beth and Kirk

Anonymous said...

Tiffany,
Sorry for your loss, your family is in our thoughts and prayers. So special that he was able to participate in Oscar's blessing.

Anonymous said...

Tiffany,

I work with your sister Toni at the university. I'm so sorry for your loss and want you and all your family to know that you are in my prayers. I have heard about all of your family over the years and I know your Dad must have been a terrific guy to have such great kids.

With deepest sympathy,
Jill Watts

Heather said...

I am so sorry Tiffany- I had no idea of this hard time you and your family were going through- which speaks volumes about you! Wow, what a positive person you are. I am so glad you had Oscar's blessing day to spend with your dad. You will be in my prayers.

Langston Family said...

TIff
I know you know I LOVE YOU! Just had to tell you again!
I LOVE YOU!
I always admired your bond with your dad and I know you'll treasure that forever! I'm so glad that I was able to know him! He had a hand in raising my best friend and for that I thank him!
See you soon sweetie!

Debbie Murdock said...

We love you and your family. We send our love, thoughts and prayers to you. We wish we could be there but you are in our prayers. Please give your mom a huge hug from us and let her know that we love her.

The Murdocks

valerie said...

Oh Tiff I am so sorry to hear this! Very touching tribute to your dad, and ryan's comments on his blog were wonderful. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Stacey and I are going to try to come to the funeral.
I love you Tiff!

MKB said...

Tiffany,

I am so sorry for your loss. Please let us know if there is anything we can do to help you out. If you need us to watch the kids, make a dinner or anything. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers.

MaryKate

~ kietra ~ said...

Hey Tiffany, We just wanted you to know we were thinking about you. You and your family are in our prayers. Much love.

Kindall Klan said...

Hi Tiffany,
I don't know you, but I found your blog through a friend of mine's (Beth). She had suggested to read a touching tribute.
My husband (Aaron Kindall) and his parents (Dave and Meegan Kindall) have been in mourning for your father since they heard the news. I couldn't believe it when I found your blog. I just wanted you to know they have the nicest memories of him, and have said many prayers on behalf of your family. Warm hugs,
Mistie Kindall

Lyric Payne said...

I'm sorry to hear about your dad, but what a great tribute you paid to him. He sounds like quite a man.

The Crabtree Chronicles said...

Just wanted to add my thoughts and prayers to everyone else. I loved all of the pictures you put up of your dad and I love your wedding dress, that was the first time I had seen it! I'm so glad family and ward family are helping you through this tough time. I think about you and your family every day. My mom was able to attend the funeral, wish I could have been there too!
Love,
Brittney